Whether you watch Desperate Housewives, NBA Basketball, both or neither, chances are you know who Eva Longoria is, and you know that she’s getting a divorce from Tony Parker, an NBA player for the San Antonio Spurs, because he cheated on her.

Details are starting to surface about whom the mystery woman is, and today I’m hearing that the woman is Erin Barry, wife of Brent Barry – an NBA player for the San Antonio Spurs.

I don’t know that the details on what happened will ever fully be made public, but there’s talk that Eva Longoria isn’t as good in bed as Erin Barry – potentially having something to do with a rumored unwillingness by Eva to engage in oral sex. Other reports say that Tony Parker never had intercourse with Erin Barry, and that the extent of his cheating was through sexting.

I keep hearing people clamor on about how Parker would be stupid to cheat on Eva Longoria just because she’s considered one of the hottest women in the world by a couple of magazines.  For all the guys who would want to fantasize about spending a night (or a long weekend) with Longoria, filled with as much sex as possible, they have to realize that when folks get married, that’s not what life is like.  Sure, Tony Parker has probably had a few weekends like that with Eva Longoria, but what about the rest of the days?  Maybe she nags him incessently about things that don’t matter to him.  Maybe they disagree on fundamental things.  Maybe she’s materialistic.  Who knows what the reason is.  Maybe the rumor about her being selfish in bed (or even boring) is true.

One thing is true:  Erin Barry is HOT.  Maybe she won’t be on the cover of Maxim magazine, but to say she can’t compare at all with Eva Longoria is WAY off base.  In fact, there’s a couple of ways you could say that Eva Longoria doesn’t necessarily measure up with Erin Barry!

Don’t start crying for Tony Parker or saying he made a stupid move or is going to regret this decision just because you think Eva Longoria is amazingly beautiful.  There are plenty of women in the world (many of them in France) who are gorgeous – a lot of whom don’t need to be airbrushed to look that way (not to say Eva Longoria NEEDS to be airbrushed, but I’ve seen some images which make it seem like she certainly benefits heavily from the airbrushing).

GuysNation certainly doesn’t condone a person cheating on his or her spouse.  We won’t say that what Tony Parker did was the right thing to do, especially since we don’t even know exactly what he did, but we will say that we’re sure he has his reasons, and we can’t blame him if he made the decision after years of being with Eva Longoria that he doesn’t want to be with her anymore.

We are guessing that pictures like the one you see below will become collectors items!

Want some more perspective on what Erin Barry looks like?  Here’s a couple more we’ve found: